Trying to Define Gender
Why words matter
- The words we use are a mark of identity, particularly collective and common identity.
- It creates socially accepted norms in the way we understand things.
- We learn the meaning of words to make sure we are consistent in how we speak to each other and how we treat each other.
Inclusive and Respectful Language
Which is Preferred?
The Golden Rule says: “treat others as you want to be treated.”
The Platinum Rule says: “treat others how they would like to be treated.”
In other words, the Golden Rule places the emphasis on you. The Platinum Rule places it on the other person. The Golden Rule is "ME-centered," whereas the Platinum Rule is "YOU-centered."
- Always use the preferred name and gender pronoun for an individual. Only use their legal name and gender when required by law or policies.
- When asking for an assigned name and gender, do NOT ask for an individual’s ‘real’ or ‘proper’ information.
- Use gender-neutral language, such as: Partner, Spouse, Parent, Child, Person, People, Friends
- Use “same-sex marriage” or “marriage equality” rather than “gay marriage.”
Which is Preferred?
The Golden Rule says: “treat others as you want to be treated.”
The Platinum Rule says: “treat others how they would like to be treated.”
In other words, the Golden Rule places the emphasis on you. The Platinum Rule places it on the other person. The Golden Rule is "ME-centered," whereas the Platinum Rule is "YOU-centered."
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